01
Catch up
A queue of people whose cadence is due, or whose bond is starting to drift. No streaks. No points. Just who to reach.
The ledger for the people who matter.
Keep the names you intend to keep. At the end of the day, write who you met and what happened. Reach out before silence does the work for you.
Bonder
Bonder
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16
People
6
Chat
9
Catch up
4
Ditto
AM
Amma
Due
AR
Arjun Menon
Due
NI
Nisha
Drifting
ME
Meera
Quiet
Not another address book
Thousands of numbers. A short list you actually wrote.
A phone book fills itself. Bonder stays empty until you sit down and put someone in it. At the end of the day it asks you to close the ledger: who you met, what happened, and what you want to remember tomorrow.
Tonight, 9:00 PM
Close the day
Meera
Promised to write. Wedding was the last time we talked.
Vikram
Printer in Pune. Asked about the move.
Why it exists
Meaningful relationships need more than a contacts list.
Without a cadence, the people who matter fade into silence. Bonder watches that space, and tells you when to show up.
02
Bond health
The bond stays full through the cadence you set, then fades a point a day. Violet when it is strong. Rose when it is not.
03
Context
Notes and last reach-out live with the person. The next conversation starts from what you actually remember.
Keep the people who matter.
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